How do I change my RSVP?
Return to your invitation and choose Change your answer while replies are open.
Open the invitation using the same email address you used to reply. Choose Change your answer, update your response or the people on it, and submit it again.
If your host recorded your answer for you, sign in with the email address your host has for you. You will see that answer and can change it the same way.
While you are coming, or said maybe, your answer at the top of your guest page lists the people you added, with what each of them chose. Where your host asks about meals, anybody still without one says No meal chosen. Change your answer to pick for them.
You can also return through the Invited shelf on your events screen.
If the option is missing or the form says replies are closed, contact your host directly. They can help with a late change. Sending a message to product support does not tell your host that your plans have changed.
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